Welcome To Our Farm
about our rustic wedding venue in nj
meet our farm family
The Farm on Main is more than just a rustic wedding venue in NJ—it’s a labor of love built by our family. Tom and Jess Scangarello, Long Beach Island locals and owners of Bay Ave Plant Company, purchased this 20-acre property in 2016 to support their business's composting and storage needs. They renovated the iconic “Little Blue House” on the property, turning it into a warm and welcoming home for their family. Today, that same beloved building is The Farmhouse, our bridal suite where countless couples prepare for their big day.
After hosting private weddings and events for friends and loved ones, Tom and Jess felt inspired to share their land with the community. In September 2023, The Farm On Main officially opened its doors, and since then, we have hosted over 50 weddings and events, becoming an exclusive NJ wedding venue where unforgettable memories are made. Here, love stories take root and flourish—just as it has for our family.
50+ happy couples and counting
meet marcela
Marcela is our Lead Wedding & Events Coordinator at The Farm on Main. She brings a wealth of experience from her time working in public relations with powerhouse beauty and fashion brands including J.Crew, Maybelline, Target, and David’s Bridal. Since joining our Farm family, she has been the heart and soul of seamless event execution. Whether it’s an intimate social event or a full-scale wedding, Marcela’s ability to juggle countless details with grace and her ever-present smile ensures every event feels as special as the love stories and milestones they celebrate.
A natural problem solver with an eye for detail, Marcela goes above and beyond to make each occasion unforgettable. From orchestrating vendor relationships to managing client communications, she’s the calming force behind the scenes - transforming complex logistics into effortless experiences. Marcela firmly believes that the best celebrations begin with exceptional plans—and she’s here to make sure your day at The Farm on Main is both extraordinarily fun and an experience that you will never forget.
explore our rustic wedding venue in nj
Just 12 minutes from the beach, The Farm on Main is your private barn wedding retreat, offering a collection of breathtaking settings to make your special day truly extraordinary. From serene outdoor ceremony spaces like The Pond and The Greenhouse to charming indoor locations like The Forsythe Barn and The Horse Stable, every corner of our property has been thoughtfully designed to blend rustic charm with timeless elegance. Discover the natural magic of our unique locations and create memories to treasure forever.
meet your wedding day support system
From your first inquiry to your final send-off, we’re here to make your wedding day seamless and stress-free. Led by our dedicated Lead Wedding & Events Coordinator, Marcela, who will be your main point of contact, our experienced team of wedding professionals works tirelessly behind the scenes to ensure every detail is flawless. Whether it’s keeping the timeline on track, coordinating vendors, or quietly extinguishing any unexpected hiccups, we handle it all so you can stay focused on what truly matters—cherishing every second of your wedding day.
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Tom
Marketing Director & Events Assistant
Tom brings creativity and behind-the-scenes magic to The Farm—from weekend weddings and events to social posts.
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Erin
Wildflower Florals
Erin turns flowers into showstoppers. She’s behind the blooms that make your wedding feel fun, fresh, and unique.
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Sue
Set the Bar
Sue’s the genius behind the drinks. From bubbly to mocktails, she keeps the bar flowing and the vibes high with every pour.
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Stephen & Stephanie
Sunny Rae’s Kitchen
The husband and wife team behind Sunny Rae’s Kitchen serves up farm-fresh flavor with love in every dish.
your farm questions answered
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We can fit up to 200 seated guests inside of The Forsythe Barn. Weddings between 200-250 guests (for a seated dinner) and weddings over 250 guests (for a cocktail-style reception) can also be accommodated with the placement of a tent next to The Forsythe Barn for a seamless indoor/outdoor experience (tent fee not included).
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Sunny Rae's At The Farm (catering) and Set The Bar (bar service) are both exclusive and required vendors at The Farm on Main. Additionally, liability insurance is required in order to host an event in any of our spaces as well as a shuttle service, if you anticipate having over 65 cars parked in the lot during your event.
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We'd love to get you a quote based on your specific event details. Please reach out to us here and we will get back to you as quickly as possible.
At The Farm on Main, we believe in the power of community. Our Annual Farm Community Dinner is a cherished tradition that embodies our commitment to supporting local families in need. Held during the holiday season, this heartfelt event brings neighbors together to share a warm meal while creating moments of connection.
None of this would be possible without the generosity of our incredible community and the unwavering support of our sponsors. Their contributions allow us to provide meals, gifts, and a day filled with joy to families who deserve it most. Together, we’re fostering a spirit of giving that reflects the heart of The Farm on Main.
We invite you to join us in making a difference—whether by attending, sponsoring, or simply spreading the word about the work we do in our community.