about our rustic wedding venue in nj
Meet our farm on main family
Every corner of this property has a story, and it all starts with the family who built it. Meet the people behind The Farm On Main, explore the grounds, and learn about our history.
meet the scangarellos
From Our Family To Yours
The Farm On Main started the same way a lot of meaningful things do… not as a business plan, but as something built for family. Tom and Jessica Scangarello, Long Beach Island locals and owners of Bay Avenue Plant Company, purchased this 20-acre property in 2016 to support their growing business. What began as a space for composting and family farming slowly turned into something more. They renovated the iconic “Little Blue House” on the property, creating a warm, welcoming home for their family. Today, that same space lives on as The Farmhouse, where our brides spend their wedding day mornings.
As their friends and family started celebrating life’s biggest milestones here, it became clear this place had a different kind of energy. It felt special, like it needed to be shared.
In September 2023, The Farm On Main officially opened its doors to the community, and since then, it has become a space where couples near and far can experience something that’s increasingly hard to find: a wedding venue that feels entirely their own. One wedding per day, 20 acres to themselves, and a setting that naturally brings people together.
The Farm isn’t just a rustic wedding venue in New Jersey, it’s a place that grew organically, rooted in family, and designed with intention. It’s where your story gets the space to unfold and where your forever after begins.
our wedding ceremony + reception spaces
The Pond and The Forsythe Barn
From ceremony to reception, these two spaces work together to create a natural flow to your day. The Pond offers a peaceful, open-air setting to say your vows, while The Forsythe Barn carries that energy inside for a reception that feels warm, inviting, and alive from the moment you walk in.
our ceremony rain space
The Greenhouse and Orchard
Just steps from The Pond and Forsythe Barn, these spaces offer a more intimate, tucked-away feel. The Greenhouse is filled with soft natural light and an indoor-outdoor atmosphere, making it a perfect option for a rainy day ceremony. Right behind it, The Orchard provides a scenic backdrop that pairs seamlessly with your al fresco “I do’s” in The Greenhouse.
“The team at The Farm - Marcela, Tom, Stephanie, Stephen, Sue, Erin, and so many others - made the entire planning process seamless. They are incredibly organized, professional, and genuinely fun to work with. Marcela and Tom gave us complete confidence that our day would run smoothly, and Marcela was always available and quick to respond to any questions or concerns. We felt so supported every step of the way.”
Morgan + Nick
our rustic landmark
THE STARLIGHT BARN
The Starlight Barn is the most rustic corner of our property, full of character and charm. Just outside, the patio lined with grapevines and framed by red barn doors creates a serene setting that’s perfect for a first look or portraits.
our golden hour spot
THE HORSE STABLE
The Horse Stable is one of the dreamiest spots on the property, especially at sunset. As the sun drops behind the paddocks, it creates that gorgeous golden hour glow. And if it fits your vibe, our horses are always ready to make an appearance.
our lead wedding & events coordinator
Meet Marcela Abramowitz
Marcela is our Lead Wedding & Events Coordinator at The Farm On Main. She brings a wealth of experience from her time working in public relations with powerhouse beauty and fashion brands including J.Crew, Maybelline, Target, and David’s Bridal. Since joining our Farm family, she has been the heart and soul of seamless event execution. Whether it’s an intimate social event or a full-scale wedding, Marcela’s ability to juggle countless details with grace and her ever-present smile ensures every event feels as special as the love stories and milestones they celebrate.
A natural problem solver with an eye for detail, Marcela goes above and beyond to make each occasion unforgettable. From orchestrating vendor relationships to managing client communications, she’s the calming force behind the scenes - transforming complex logistics into effortless experiences. Marcela firmly believes that the best celebrations begin with exceptional plans, and she’s here to make sure your day at The Farm On Main is both extraordinarily fun and an experience that you will never forget.
your wedding day support team
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Tom Cerullo
Tom is our Marketing Director and Events Assistant, bringing behind-the-scenes magic to The Farm and our couples.
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Reagan Narwid
Reagan is our newest Wedding and Events Coordinator, helping bring each wedding day together with care and intention.
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Josh Cox
Josh is our Facilities Manager, taking care of our horses and making sure our grounds are always wedding-ready.
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Sue Vilardi
Sue is the owner of Set The Bar, keeping your wedding day bar flowing and the vibes high with every single pour.
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Stephanie & Stephen Smotrycz
Stephanie and Stephen are the owners of Sunny Rae’s Kitchen, making sure your guests are never hungry.
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Erin Eastburn
Erin is the Lead Floral Designer at Wildflower Florals, making your wedding feel fun, fresh, and unique.
Supporting our neighbors and community
At The Farm On Main, we believe in the power of community. Our Annual Community Holiday Gathering is a cherished tradition that embodies our commitment to supporting local families in need. Held during the holiday season, this heartfelt event brings neighbors together to share a warm meal while creating moments of connection.
None of this would be possible without the generosity of our incredible community and the unwavering support of our sponsors. Their contributions allow us to provide meals, gifts, and a day filled with joy to families who deserve it most. Together, we’re fostering a spirit of giving that reflects the heart of The Farm On Main.