The Farm on Main

our micro wedding package details

your farm forever after starts here!

We’re so excited you’re here! As you explore The Farm on Main, you’ll discover that a micro wedding experience comes with three essential elements: the venue, the food, and the bar, all of which are required to ensure a seamless and fully supported event.

We also offer in-house florals to help bring your vision to life, but if you’re feeling crafty, you’re more than welcome to DIY your blooms. No other outside florists are permitted. Whether you keep things simple or go all out, our spaces really speak for themselves. Feel free to scroll through this page or use the buttons below to jump to specific sections and start envisioning your intimate wedding day at The Farm on Main.

If you have any questions at all or would like information about our Signature Wedding Package (for weddings with over 100 guests), please reach back out to our Lead Wedding & Events Coordinator, Marcela, at events@thefarmonmainnj.com.

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FLORALS
PREFERRED VENDORS

our wedding venue

The Farm on Main

Photographer: Hailie D Photography

Looking to say “I do” in an intimate and unforgettable way? Our Micro Wedding Packages offer private access to our property and one of our thoughtfully designed spaces for a 4-hour celebration, centered around what matters most: your love story. These weddings can only be booked within 6 months of your desired date and include everything you need for a stress-free, scaled-down day that still feels magical.

Each micro wedding includes:

  • 4 hours for your reception (90 minutes for food service)

  • 1 hour for your ceremony (30 minutes for guest arrival, 30 minutes for the ceremony itself)

  • 2 hours prior to the ceremony for prep and portraits

We recommend arriving to The Farm with hair and makeup already complete so you can use your prep window to slip into your wedding attire and take photos across the property before your guests arrive.

our micro wedding package

Photographer: Ann Coen Studio

  • The Starlight Barn | $3,000

    • Perfect for smaller gatherings, this open-air barn accommodates up to 40 guests and includes access to the patio, firepit, and indoor bar. The ceremony takes place just outside, on The Wedding Lawn, with handcrafted benches and our arbor if you choose to use.

      Included: Farm tables, bentwood chairs, high top tables, disposable bamboo tableware, and clear glassware. Upgrade to standard tableware: $5/guest.

    *Venue rental is $2,500 if having your ceremony off-site

event space options

  • The Greenhouse | $3,000

    • Light-filled and naturally beautiful, our clear-sided hoop house hosts up to 60 guests for an intimate reception. Ceremonies for Greenhouse micro weddings are held at The Pond, one of the most serene spots on the property.
      Included: Farm tables, bentwood chairs, high top tables, disposable bamboo tableware, and clear glassware. Upgrade to standard tableware: $5/guest.

    *Venue rental is $2,500 if having your ceremony off-site

  • The Forsythe Barn | $7,000

    • Our modern timber frame barn is ideal for larger micro weddings of up to 100 guests, offering a grand-yet-inviting space near the pond. Couples may choose to have their ceremony at either The Pond or The Greenhouse, depending on preference and season. The barn also features a covered patio with fire pit, built-in stage, dance floor, multiple bars, and a hang-out loft.
      Included: Farm tables, bentwood chairs, high top tables, modern white plateware, and clear glassware.

    *Venue rental is $6,500 if having your ceremony off-site

your farm on main questions answered

  • Yes. Catering must be contracted with Sunny Rae’s at The Farm and bar service must be contracted with Set the Bar at The Farm.

  • Yes. We partner with eWed insurance and will walk you through setting up a policy. It must include general liability and liquor liability listing The Farm on Main, LLC and J. Thomas Properties, LLC as additional insured.

  • Yes. All outside vendors must be approved and fully insured. We will collect their insurance for you.

  • Micro weddings at The Farm on Main can be scheduled to begin anytime between 11:00 AM and 5:00 PM, with all events ending no later than 10:00 PM. We’ll work with you to select a start time that fits your flow—just keep in mind that the total time on property is 4 hours for the reception, 1 hour for ceremony, and 2 hours for prep.

Photographer: Ann Coen Studio

To secure your date at The Farm on Main, we require a signed contract and 50% deposit at the time of booking. Payments follow a structured schedule:

  • 50% deposit due at signing

  • Remaining balance + tax due 2 weeks prior to the event

  • All packages are subject to NJ Sales Tax

Payments are made separately to our on-premise vendors. For a cost per person breakdown, please contact events@thefarmonmainnj.com for a customized estimate.

venue rental deposit schedule

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our in-house catering partner

Sunny Rae’s Kitchen

micro wedding food packages

Led by husband-and-wife team Stephanie and Stephen Smotrycz, Sunny Rae’s Kitchen is our exclusive in-house catering service that blends farm-fresh flavors with impeccable hospitality to create a dining experience your guests will be raving about for years to come. As the executive chef, Stephanie brings her passion for seasonal, high-quality ingredients to every dish, crafting a menu that disrupts your typical banquet fare. Meanwhile, Stephen, the maître d’, ensures that every reception runs smoothly, overseeing service with unmatched attention to detail. Below, you’ll find their detailed micro wedding package information to help you plan your perfect menu. If you have any questions, feel free to reach out via email at sunnyraesatthefarm@gmail.com and stephen.srk.fom@gmail.com.

stationed buffet | $90 per person

  • Salad (choose 1)

    • Caesar | house-made dressing, croustons, parmesant crumble

    • Seasonal | mixed greens, local vegetables, fresh fruit

    • Italian Chopped | black olives, tomatoes, red onion, pepperoncini

  • Entrees (choose 2)

    • Chicken piccata | capers, garlic

    • Organic Salmon | dijon creme, lemon

    • Sliced Flat Iron | chimichurri, roasted tomatoes

    • Stuffed Tomatoes | quinoa, kale, parmesan, marinara

    • Pork Tenderloin Normandy | braised apples, onion gravy

    • Grilled Lemon Chicken

    • Chicken Marsala

  • Sides (choose 2)

    • Brussel Sprouts | house-smoked bacon, onion

    • Asparagus and Jersey Corn Succotash

    • Rainbow Carrots | farm honey, everything seasoning

    • Haricot Verts | garlic, olive oil

    • Roasted Broccoli | onion, garlic, olive oil

    • Whipped Gold Potatoes | garlic boursin, butter

    • Sweet Potato Puree | red curry

    • Roasted Potatoes | garlic, olive oil

    • Wild Rice | roasted mushrooms

cocktail hour add-on

If you’d like to include a mock cocktail hour during the first 45 minutes of your reception, we’re happy to accommodate. A $450 fee covers the additional staff and setup needed for this add-on. From there, you can select 4 to 6 passed appetizers, priced between $5 and $8 per guest, per selection.

In total, this add-on would be $450 plus $5 to $8 per guest, per appetizer.

Below are the available appetizer options for your micro wedding celebration:

  • House-Made Spinach Artichoke Bites

  • Hot Sausage Stuffed Mushroom

  • Crab Cakes

  • Gochujang Chicken Skewers

  • Greek Turkey Meatballs

  • Fried Chicken and Waffles | hot farm honey

  • Harissa Shrimp Samosas

  • Ginger and Soy Beef Skewer | teriyaki

  • Wagyu Beef Slider | harvarti cheese, bourbon bacon jam

  • Roasted Tomato Confit Focaccia

your food questions answered

  • Yes. A vegetarian option is available upon request. Vegetarian guests will be served with individually prepared plates.

  • Yes. By default, many of our entrees are already gluten free. However, for any guests with allergies, we will prepare them individual plates.

  • Yes. There is a 22% service charge not included in price per person. This is to pay for labor and operations of the serving staff. No gratuity or administration fees are baked into any of our pricing.

our in-house bar partner

Set The Bar

No celebration at The Farm on Main is complete without the perfect pour—and that’s where Set the Bar comes in. Our exclusive in-house bar service is dedicated to providing an elevated beverage experience that pairs seamlessly with your day.

From signature cocktails to curated liquor selections, Sue Vilardi and her team will help you create a drink menu that’s both personal and crowd-pleasing. While our bar package is a required element, serving alcohol is not. Set the Bar, can create a thoughtful and elevated beverage experience with sodas, mocktails, and non-alcoholic options tailored to your celebration. Below, you’ll find details on their bar packages for our micro weddings. If you have any questions or would like help customizing your bar experience, reach out to Sue at setthebaratthefarm@gmail.com.

bar service packages

beer, wine, & bubbly package | $850

  • Up to 60* guests included in price

  • Beer & wine only

  • Does not include alcohol

    Includes:

  • 1 bartender for a 4 hour event

  • Soft drink package (see below)

  • Consultation by Sue, the bar coordinator, followed by a custom list of alcohol to order

  • Beverage napkins and straws

  • Full set-up and clean up

  • Each guest above the 60 person headcount will incur an upcharge and may require additional bar staff depending on drinks and details ($10/pp)

the soft drink package includes:

A Water Dispenser, Seltzer, Coke, Diet Coke, Ginger Ale, Sprite, Grenadine, Unsweetened Iced Tea, Cranberry Juice, Orange Juice, Lemons, Limes, Ice

cocktail package | $1,200

  • Up to 60* guests included in price

  • Does not include alcohol

    Includes:

  • 1 bartender for a 4 hour event

  • Full mixer & garnish package (see below)

  • Consultation by Sue, the bar coordinator, followed by a custom list of alcohol to order

  • Beverage napkins and straws

  • Full set-up and clean up

  • Each guest above the 60 person headcount will incur an upcharge and may require additional bar staff depending on drinks and details ($20/pp)

the mixer & garnish package includes:

A Water Dispenser, Coke, Diet Coke, Sprite, Ginger Ale, Seltzer, Tonic, Cranberry, Pineapple, Organic Orange Juice, Ruby Red Grapefruit, Organic Lemonade, Sour Mix, Lime Juice, Grenadine, Bitters, Lemons, Limes, Oranges, Cherries, Olives, Ice

• Extra bartender: $350 (may be recommended)

• Cocktail choices & additional upgrades available

Note: Alcohol not included. As per NJ State Law, we can not sell alcohol. Event liability insurance policy will be required. Your liquor costs will vary depending on the brands you choose and the type of drinks you would like to offer your guests. To give you an estimate based on past events, plan on budgeting for about $15-20 per head to offer your guests beer, wine, bubbly, and a few specialty cocktails. Other special requests and extras such as Red Bull, Ginger Beer, etc. can be added to the final invoice.

*Prices are subject to NJ sales tax

additional services

your bar questions answered

  • Your liquor costs will vary depending on the scope of your day, your brand preferences, and how much your guests consume. To give you an estimate based on past events, plan on budgeting about $15-$20 per guest, before returns, to offer a full bar with basic popular brands of liquor. This is in addition to the package prices.

  • First, we will create a custom list for the liquor store based on your signature drinks, brand preferences and guest count. Then, we will place the agreed upon order with our partner liquor store and coordinate delivery of the order. Our couples must make direct payment to the liquor store. After the wedding you have one week to return unopened beer, wine, and liquor for credit back. Since liquor is not allowed on the premises overnight, a designated person must take the alcohol at the conclusion of the wedding.

  • The Farm provides a double rocks glass, wine glass, and champagne flute for bar service. We use the double rocks for soda, water, cocktails, and drinks on the rocks from the bar. Depending on your signature drinks, we can arrange a rental for any other glassware you would like such as coupes, stemless martini glasses, copper mules, and more. Champagne toasts and dinner wine service glassware are not included, but are available as add-ons. Rental costs will appear in the final invoice.

our in-house florist

Wildflower Florals

Photographer: Ann Coen Studio

Wildflower offers à la carte floral design, with every item thoughtfully itemized so you can build a package that fits your style and your budget. Erin Eastburn and her team make it easy to customize exactly what you need—nothing more, nothing less.

For micro weddings, you’re welcome to work with Wildflower Florals or take a DIY approach to your flowers. Whether you want professional support or prefer to bring your own creative touch, we’re here to support your vision. Got questions? Reach out to erin@wildflowerfloraldesignnj.com

Please note: There is a $4,000 minimum if all florals must be delivered and installed on-site, making your day as beautiful (and stress-free) as possible. There is no minimum for pick-up orders.

wedding floral package

personals

  • Bridal Bouquet | $250+

  • Bridal Bouquet (Cascading) | $350+

  • Bridesmaids Bouquet | $115+

  • Boutonnieres | $20+

  • Floral Pocket Square | $50

  • Wrist Corsages | $25

  • Flower Crown | $50

  • Flower Girl Petals | $25

  • Aisle Markers (Floor) | $85+

  • Arbor Decor | $250+

  • Welcome Sign Florals | $50+

ceremony

  • Floating Candle | $8

  • Pillar Candle | $10

  • Taper Candle | $15

candle rentals (per candle)

reception

  • Bud Vase | $20

  • Micro Compote Vase or Micro Low Dish | $75

  • Bud Vases (Set of 5) | $100

  • Micro Compote Vases (Set of 3) or Micro Low Dishes (Set of 3) | $225

  • Standard Compote Vase or Standard Low Dish | $200

  • Long and Low Organic Centerpiece (3ft) | $250

  • Lush Greenery Garlands (5ft) | $200

  • Lush Greenery Garlands with Flowers Intertwined (5ft) | $250

  • Mantle Decor | $250+

  • Seating Chart Florals | $50+

  • Loose Greenery | $50

  • Smilax Beam Installation (1x Area, Unavailable May–June) | $2,500

To receive a complimentary $500 venue floral credit on your Wildflower Florals package, the floral contract must be booked within 60 days of signing your venue agreement, and the total package must meet or exceed $5,000. All candle rentals include proper glassware and accessories for safe display.

Please note:

  • Pricing may vary if premium or specialty florals are requested.

  • If you're envisioning something that’s not listed above, custom designs and pricing are available—just ask!

  • Delivery, setup, and breakdown fees will be applied to your final invoice.

If you floral package meets or exceeds $7,000, you will receive a physical tablescape mockup set up on site at your venue (during the off season), along with a one hour in person meeting to walk through everything together.

complimentary floral credit

our preferred vendor list

Featured Vendors

meet the farm’s favorite people

We’ve had the pleasure of working alongside some lovely and local professionals—vendors who share our commitment to quality, creativity, and seamless celebrations. While you’re welcome to bring in your own team, we’re proud to recommend the trusted partners below who know our space well and consistently go above and beyond for our couples.

  • Wildflower Florals

  • The Mainland/Holiday Inn

    Daddy-O Hotel

    Surf City Hotel

    The Drifting Sands

    Hotel LBI

    Beach Haven Park Rental (VRLBI #2881)

    Bay Breeze House Bed & Breakfast (Tuckerton)

  • Ann Coen Studio

    • anncoen.com

    • 609.339.9233

    • @anncoenphotography

    • @anncoenstudio

    *Ann has a team of associate photographers offering a range of pricing packages to suit every budget.